When’s a hug a PDA?

School officials gave Megan Coulter, a 13-year-old student in Mascoutah (IL, US) two days of detention for hugging other students at school. School administrators considered Ms. Coulter’s hugging a violation of policy banning public displays of affection. So, when’s a hug a hug and when’s a hug a PDA?

According to Scott Wuerz and Rickeena J. Richards, writing in the Bellsville (IL, US) News-Democrat, Superintendent Sam McGowen can tell the difference.

School student Megan Coulter was warned twice about public displays of affection before she was punished Friday for hugging two students.

“The first instance came at a basketball game a week ago,” McGowen said. “And believe me, it was much more than just hugging.”

Of course, I wasn’t present to see the events, and it’s hard to get the unbiased facts from the news reports. I have to wonder if Superintendent McGowen observed the events. The school administrators have a vested interest in making the things look one way (“believe me”), and others may have interests in making them look differently. There’s also a tribe-like nature to school administration: “One of us made this judgment, and now we’re going to stick to it.” (It’s often closely related to the way some folks interact with children: “It’s my way or the highway.”)

Meanwhile, we could make quite a list of examples to examine when a hug’s a hug and when it isn’t:

  • A school sports team wins a championship and the student-players embrace each other.
  • A student who has slipped and fallen on a patch of ice stands up, crying, and another student comforts her.
  • A student whom other students know is receiving intensive medical treatment returns to school for the first time in two weeks and other students rush to greet him.

Link to the article by Mr. Wuerz and Ms. Richards. Fox has a broader story about incidents involving hugs on school campuses. Follow this story via Google’s news.



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3 responses to “When’s a hug a PDA?

  1. Jordan Hall

    Basically at my college. The Room Advisors consider a hug as a PDA. How can it. A side hug isnt a PDA or holding hands as long it doesnt involve kissing. Students at my school got mad about this.

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  3. Gabrielle Terrill

    I often hug my boyfriend and friends to greet them. But with my boyfriend, I always get yelled at but never about anyone else. And it is just like I do with my friends. I also got yelled at for standing closely next to him after he was hugging me because I was publicly embarrassed and he was comforting me. I’m not sure if it’s because he’s male or they have a prejudice for couples hugging. I do believe there should be restrictions on PDA but I feel teachers go way too far and are prejudice about it. There are couple making out and the teachers don’t say anything to them but they have separated me from my boyfriend for much less.

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